Having only a handful of friends is pretty damn sweet, I gotta admit.
It used to irritate me, whenever some certain things happened and my social pool started draining.
Like when you switch jobs and all of the sudden your old co-workers can't remember your name anymore
Or when you start dating someone new and your friends go through this "omgz we don't spend enough time together anymore so i am soooo deleting this bitch off my fb!!!11"
Or change of habits, like when you stop going to certain bars and then realize that you only saw some of these people at those bars and if you want to do anything outside of that bar, outside of their comfy second home, they want no part of it,
I used to have a whole bunch of friends and a whole lot of acquaintances and was all content with that.
Like, I would be happy to spend a rare night at home all cozy in bed but these people would constantly text me and want me to do this and that with them, and it was pretty flattering. And then for the past year and a half or so I dropped down to about a good handful of trustworthy people who I communicate with fairly often or at least twice a week, and it's really nice, you know, really fucking nice.
Sooooo who has skipped out on a lot of drama?
Who no longer gets woken up every night with 3am text messages?
Who no longer has to feel obligated to make social appearances at parties and outings and birthdays?
Who no longer has to worry about trying to bring different groups of people together without them fighting due to clashing personalities?
uhhhhhh THIS BITCH RIGHT HURR.
Tonight I got out of work, went to Walmart with my boyfriend, fed my cat, and now here I am. Fuck yeah Friday.
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